Monday, December 12, 2011

TwentyEight Ways of OverQualification

  •  Maven Huggins 
    • but i have learned that i need to navigate my age.
      the old man today swore the vehicle was not mine. Hear him. i will do the repair and give you all the pieces removed so yu can give it to your husband, boyfriend, father or whomever cause I know that car not yours"

      he said that~! people think i am 28 max
  • Chris Ren
    • you have a lot of energy!...and youthful stamina, at least from I saw...but on fb you post things in a manner that reflects your age and wisdom :)

      and how young is too young for you ?
  • Maven Huggins
    • lol/ i think that depends on the person...i have learned...took me awhile to get over that...funny bemusing thing...i had an age limit when i was younger. now that i am wiser, (or desperate-lol) I am realizing...to get a clue.. l;)
  • Chris Ren
    • I dunno if you were ever married (I can't recall if I ever asked you that) but it's strange that you're single...you're totally eligible; you're good looking (unless you were wearing a very life-like costume), you have a car...wisdom, education...you're not overweight.... I guess you just haven't met the person you're waiting for..I think you have everything under control

      ..but as I type this I recall that you once posted that you were overqualified for some job you were interested in..what if you're overqualified for a relationship? think about it..all that intellect, superb and inventive cooking skills, peerless prose, well-travelled..ambitious....that's a lot of stuff!

      as for me, I'm single by choice..I don't have the independence (money and time) for a serious relationship...and I have too many things to take care of financially; this year was crazy..
  • Maven Huggins
    • hm. Chris Ren. that is a first. never thought of that. how insightful of you to pick that up. It makes sense and worse than that, it resonates!!!

      No, i have never been married. I have no idea why i am not, is what i say. I am so flabbergasted that men do not follow or flow over me like honey...

      and you just wrote me a perfectly wonderful single ad. but all over again, for who. to post where?

      i just try to be graceful about it. and never get desperate...but it is sad and regrettful

      My girlfriend from school, my last degree, said it would be a sin if i did not have a child...to waste all that good stuff I am. I thought ...well it was shocking..it made me realize folk look at me, folk see me, and think well of me, but i rarely if ever hear it. i was so tickled...and perplexed...cause all this good stuff. yet. here i am twiddling thumbs

      folk working on multiple men, mates and spouses and here i am like a drought

      ~
  • Maven Huggins
    • i think it strange too. just like it is strange that i am not making crazy money (to burn), let alone employed

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