Dont Be Dicked For Life, Marissa

gosh. i just woke up, having done so once or twice prior this morning. and was coming to write, if you wait this long in life, make sure he is a gentleman and not a cad.

that might be a remainder of conversations I was reading in a group of women about men, and why young people have gotten married in a rash and within two years, all divorced. the writer, an older woman was concerned, scared and pondered why and solicited views to explain. they came from a range: men were always cunts they just hid it after they felt they "bought" the woman in marriage. woman want name, male cheating was the big reason, male incommunication was also named, male behavior, bad male and female behavior, selfishness, pressures; financial, relationship, fantasies. expectations, the perception that marriage is a goal rather than the contract for work that it is, duty, doing the right thing, settling, lack of spirituality and maturity, people failing to be partners, circumstances...endless.

but then i see this post and realize this thing has me so perplexed, even when i was not taking it on, but the rash of comments yesterday and people's responses

is it that they expected dick to get a free pass or a nine day memory, especially when she was going to return to the world stage in time, as on her performance of the olympics? is it that everybody witnessed the debacle and sabotage of an innocent girl, the destruction of an olympic career, the murder of cain by able, so to speak, and really, really expected that we shall never speak of this again? and that all just strikes me as madness/ plain out of mind/ lack of mindedness.

I also wonder is it that these people expected that the sabotage and metaphoric murder happened, even if it was a sports murder, and think that we should move on and dick never pay for her role in the debacle? Never pay for her choice to accept the sullied post that belonged to another? to not answer for her crimes in a plot she played, if for no other reason than for refusing to say no, i shant be a part?

Is it that you all wanted this chick a get out of jail free card?

Really? What the fuck? who the hell are you guys?

Tillah Willah

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"Everyone in this place has been Thema'd at least once. Yesterday they got a bobolee to take out their pain on. Hurt people hurt people."

i get it, hurt people do hurt people/ but is that the issue here?

On a national scale, a whole nation watched a black girl get railroaded by lies and schemes, removals and dastardly deceit. I write now and i see that was my story with sandra batie. so are there crimes for which no one shall pay? somehow? some day?

I find to say this is about hurt people hurting people is too simplistic, absolves dick of all her deeds, and that is what perplexes me. how come.? why? What do we have going on here? is it the same the little white girl syndrome? the feeling bad for the white red riding hood? At the expense cause you know black girls dont matter? who would have sat silently to watch dick get destroyed by a thema if their roles were changed?

I really trying to process this thing in sanity but i swear to you, I see a fkg rat.

since when and why and how this suspension of consequences to your actions? and why have i never seen it before.? and we have not eh. politicians come. they raid, they are watched riding into the sunset. a new set of politicians come, and all they do is bump gums of what the previous did without ever taking action and authority to do so, cause all of a sudden they have no authority to grab and wheel/ it is all a farce. a matter of will, preference, privilege and choice.

i dont know if it is the colonials are just in shock that this lily white girl is getting her ass handed to her by karma, as a public , a global public watches in the time of social media and open commentary, and feeling sorry for massa, all over again.

you gallery revolutionaries kill me. yes

 the fact of the matter, we have not all been thema'd/ trinidad could be renamed to marissa dick. or dick country and no one wold ever pause to wonder why. even to the point of no consequences for any of your dick actions.

so poignant and poetic that it was the unbalanced beam that the truth of her lie and the farce of her fraud 
finally revealed