Cornel West Breaks the No Relationship Black Woman Code. It aint us. ITs the MEN

WOMEN
here is a gem from the article

This here is the very and sole, soul reason we have problems with the men, the brothers. they peep, spy and are exposed to aspects of themselves never before encountered and it scares the shit out of them so we get madness from them, and all other manner of shit and trauma. this right here

"Because I’ve never been an advocate of psychotherapy as a path to self- understanding. . . . I’ve avoided such therapy because I worry about how it might exacerbate narcissistic tendencies. . . . I’m not sure I know myself well enough to share my whole self with others. This, in part, might explain my volatile relationships with women. One might argue that because I don’t know myself, the more time I spend with a woman, the more various parts of myself emerge—parts that are, in fact, foreign to me. In short, my whole self surfaces, and it is precisely my whole self that strikes me as a stranger. To maintain a long-term and long-lasting bond with a woman may require the kind of soul-sharing or self-sharing that’s beyond my capability.:" Cornell West

and the other wenches out of their nasty bitterness will tell you you dont know how to keep a relationship. Yeah you damn skippy, i am not a door mat or toilet to keep my lid down so i can say, I got a man; while he runs the street, women, men and all other vices of denial.

that article gets and award. that is the code, the key and the answer to all our troubles. right there.
West said that@!

"West’s narcissism in this matter is not exemplified by his sense of being jilted but in the way he has personalized his grief." Michael Eric Dyson

Dont personalize these men and their griefs, sisters.!!!
These men just wrote us our freedoms.

It is indeed New Aries Moon and Life This TIme

Source: The Ghost of Cornel West